A Providing Father Loses Sight of his own Security
Jessica Guzman • June 15, 2022
Battling immigration, homelessness, and blindness
After dedicating 30 plus years to the Nuclear Industry, Planell found himself at a crossroads when his social security benefits were suddenly denied due to his immigration status.
Having been a self-proclaimed "workaholic" and someone who sacrificed family time in exchange for stability for his family, Planell felt distraught when he realized he would no longer be able to provide for himself and his family and that his benefits would be lost.
In 2016 Planell's unfortunate journey to homelessness began. At 61 years old, the trauma of his situation led to substance abuse (drugs, alcohol) as a means of escaping and he eventually found himself homeless with nowhere to turn.
In 2020, Planell turned to the Coalition for help. And as if the loss of his status, his home, his family, and his benefits weren't enough, he soon found himself losing something more---his eyesight. Planell was diagnosed with severe glaucoma and is legally blind today. At the Coalition, Planell has been paired with case manager Ramon who is working to get him into an assisted living facility, and attempting to re-secure some of his lost benefits. He also recently obtained his first walking stick, which has been beneficial to his condition.
Reflecting on his life, Planell shows remorse for showing up just a provider to his family. "I was a provider. My children saved my life as a working man, but I screwed up as a father." He says while his family is set up with property and homes thanks to his hard work, he finds himself alone and battling fears around his own security and potential dangers.
"My biggest fear is there's going to be a time where they say we can do nothing about you...and I have to go. And [being] blind and on the street is so terrifying."
Planell is safe and secure at the Coalition, but his case against homelessness, blindness, and stability is on-going. Despite being a doting provider, he is still dealing with loss as he works diligently to return to his feet.
Interview with Planell (transcribed verbatim)
Interview with Planell (transcribed verbatim)
Q: How has being a father changed your life?
"Being responsible; the desire to take care my children and give them what I never have in my country; to have a better life (now) than I have. Before I become—that was a mistake—because I become a workaholic. I became a provider...a material provider, not a father that loves...that deserves. Be there...for... when they need me; basketball games, when they have problems, their daddy is not there. Especially the girls, they really have it a crush on dad, because they have a problem with a boyfriend or whatever, dad is not there. It’s suffered, I mean. Sometimes you have to think...you have to put yourself in my shoes. I’m an immigrant; our dream is to do better. For ourself and your family; and in the back of your head, you’re always thinking you don’t want what I had in my country, for my children in this country, so you have to work hard. You have to do everything to make your wife happy—house, bills paid, you know work, work, work, work , and sometimes it’s a gap that we miss. And sometimes your children love you...with nothing. They don’t really care about material things because they're young. They just want you there (with them). So it’s just....it made me strong to work and provide, but at the same time I messed up and became weak because I was not really a good father and I thought I was. I was just a provider. That’s why my daughter calls me the donor, because technically yeah...I make enough, I brought up baby , and I gave everything, but I wasn’t there. I gave everything material... I didn’t give her the support and love; maternity love that a child needs. I was not there, I was working a nd in my mind ...I was so strong, I was a freaking workaholic. I became so workaholic, that my job was 6 months out of my house, come back to my house, I get the hot sheet and work for another company that wants to give me another job, until my company calls me again. Because when you have a trade, in my trade, another company that does the same thing, they might need you. So you call it, yeah you come, for another 3-4months....so I was like 'I love you, but I got to go.' But my children saved my life as a working man, but I screwed up as a father... "
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