The Hardest Part was "Feeling Inadequate"
Meet Erika
 
  
Full Interview with Erika
Name: Erika G.
 How many kids do you have, and what are their names: 
I have three kids and their names are: Jedidiah, Malakai, and Deuce.
 When did you first go homeless: 
September 2021.
 When did you move into your new place:
 
Monday, April 25th.
 Where were you born:
 
I was born in Shreveport, Louisiana. I was originally in the Foster Care system (in Louisiana and California) until I graduated High School.
 What brought you to Central Florida: 
I was with my youngest son’s father and he thought this would be a great place to start a family.
 What did you do for work before: 
I worked for nonprofits in Los Angeles, California: Shields for Families, Hope for Life, places like that. Currently I'm working to get my Masters in Social Work.
 Where you experiencing any other difficult circumstances at the time of going homeless: 
Yes. I already had a voucher (veteran) but rental rates were an issue. That’s how we got into homeless predicament: Sept 2021.
 Did you experience food insecurity while homeless?: 
In this current situation we were in, yes, we had issues with securing food. Mr. Walker (the social worker who we connected with) helped us with money out of his own pocket.
 What was it like experiencing homelessness: 
Not it. Stressful.
 How long were you homeless:
 
Six months.
 Where did you go initially: 
I was paying for hotel rooms, and then it became too much. At the time I was also paying for boarding school for my son. So we sometimes slept in the car when we had to, then in the hotel rooms, then in the car.
 How did you learn about the Coalition: 
Through a social worker named Mr. Walter Walker. He specifically connected me to Angie Black, at the Coalition.
Angie said we could pay for a week for you all to stay at a hotel. I told her I had a voucher, I found a place, it's just about the inspection and everything is taking longer. Angie said "okay, if you qualify and if the landlord qualifies, we can pay for that deposit, and we can connect you with mustard seed and get your furniture." They did everything they needed to do, paid the prorated rent, and then we moved in.
 What was the hardest thing for you: 
Feeling inadequate. You know. I can’t provide for my children. I’m their Mom and now....um...it doesn’t matter how you got into it, or what you have, it’s in that moment you can't do what is supposed to be done. I didn’t grow up with my Momma and I never wanted to have my children feel insecure in that way. You know what I mean? They should feel secure. You know what I mean? I wanted to break some cycles and I wasn’t breaking them being homeless. I can’t.
 What’s the most important thing that you lost when you lost your home 
:
Ummm my self-sufficiency, you know?
 What gave you hope/motivation at that time: 
I pray a lot, you know. My children. And even the day I was really really down...Mr. Walker came, gave us money out of his pocket, and told us someone was going to help us...and that was a light at the end of the tunnel. I knew that something had to give, I just didn’t know when.
 Describe your experience in one word: 
HARD.
 What was it like moving into your new place 
:
It was a sigh of relief. You know? I know it’s a sigh of relief for them. You know? No lugging anything around.
 Can you speak to me a bit about Motherhood, and what it's like being a mother:
 
I think overall, that being a Mom is a thankless job, it’s tiring, but it (um) it yields its fruit, when it’s time. So, I think that being a mom is about enduring. It's endurance. You have to be able to endure. You know?
You’re not going to be able to get it right every time. The majority of the time, you ‘re not going to get it right. There is no handbook. There is nobody...and everyone writes a book, but there is no one way to do...and how to parent. Because each child is their own individual and each is different with their own personality and their own needs. And so you have to table your parenting to that child and you're going to make mistakes, you're going to fall down A LOT...but you have to be able to endure, because it's about endurance and you see the fruit at the end. You know? You’re not going to seeing it right away. Sometimes it feels like you’re toiling in vain, but you’re not because you do see the fruit in your end.
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