Veterans Day
When I was a kid I had gotten in trouble a few times where my mom had to come and get me out of juvie. But right after I turned 18 I was in front of a judge who simply looked at me and said, “You’re not a minor anymore. So I’m going to give you three choices in life here today: Either you go into the job core, the military, or I’m sending you to prison”.
And so I joined the military. Decided right there on the spot. It was the best decision I’ve ever made in my life. I signed up for four years. Part of my duties included going out and purifying the water that we all would drink. Well, one night it had been raining pretty hard and the conveyer that held our water overflowed. The alarm went off so we took off to the truck, when I went to jump onto the bed I slipped in the rain and fell directly onto a vile that injured my hip. After that I spent another eight months in active duty before I was medically cleared.
I eventually went back home, rekindled with my high school sweetheart and we got married. Six months later my father passed and sometime afterwards I eventually got a divorce. Through all of this I struggled with drugs and alcohol to cope with the passing of my father which had really affected me. My bad childhood habits came back which led to me dealing with some legal issues. I eventually ended up in jail. After going through the legal system so many times I finally surrendered, deciding to quit drugs and drinking all together.
I still remember that day. August 18th, 2000. Once I was in front of the judge I asked them to give me my full punishment so I can go off and become a better man. And that’s exactly what I did. I spent 30 months with DOC. But after my time I didn’t want to fall back into the same bad circles or habits. In jail I learned of a transitional housing program in Saint Cloud for Veterans. It was there I learned that I needed a hip replacement from the injury I sustained all those years ago while on active duty. I’m so thankful to the VA for getting me the medical treatment I needed. Unfortunately though, I struggled to get any income or benefits for a while. After some time struggling to get housing or earn money, I reached out to a friend who was staying at Coalition for the Homeless of Central Florida. Once I got to the Coalition they helped me get back on my feet, secure my benefits from the VA that I was entitled to and in a few months they were handing me the keys to my own apartment.
When they gave me my keys, they gave me my sense of identity back .
They were working on getting my new place furnished but I was just so excited to have my own home that I slept with some quilts on the floor for the first few days. I was just so grateful.
After everything the Coalition did to help me, their old CEO told me “Keep yourself together for six months and we’d like to give you a job at the Coalition”.
I started working at the Coalition part time with the guest services team for about three months. Eventually a full time position opened up for the night staff and I got it. About a year and a half had passed and things kept going well with the Coalition. During Hurricane Maria I was asked to be a Lead during the storms and so I bunkered down at the Coalition for several days. My boss said they were so impressed with how I handled the storm, and the potential they saw in me, that when another position opened up, this time for a Shift Leader, they offered it to me.
This past September marked six years with the Coalition. I went from staying in their apartments, to working for them part time, to full time, to now being a supervisor. It’s such a humbling experience. I’ve been clean for over thirteen years and have been able to purchase a four bedroom home. I’m even set up with all of my military benefits from the Veterans Affairs.
The best decision I made was joining the military, but the second best decision was coming to the Coalition.
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