A Journey Towards Healing
Speaking of her role as a Rapid Re-housing Case Manager at the Coalition, Elizabeth Benoit says, “There’s a reason why I ended up here and I feel that reason is to keep healing myself.”
In 2010, Elizabeth’s boyfriend held her captive in her own home for 19 hours. It was a seemingly normal Sunday night until they returned home after going out to dinner and he couldn’t find his phone. Accusing her of hiding it from him, he grew increasingly agitated and turned violent. Throughout the ordeal, he hit her, threatened her with a knife, took her phone so she couldn’t call for help, raped her, and choked her until she thought she was going to die.
He had put his hands on her prior to that ordeal, but Elizabeth hoped for the best when he told her he would change. At the time, she felt that it was her fault for giving him a second chance.
“He left me destroyed. I lost my identity, my love for life, I almost lost my kids, too, because I wasn’t there for them.”
Elizabeth contacted the police, who asked her to call him to get him to admit to his crimes over the phone. He did and stayed behind bars for about two years. When it came time for the case to go to trial, she didn’t have the energy to relive the trauma by testifying against him. Instead, they reached an agreement where he was deported to the Dominican Republic, registered as a sex offender, and she has a lifetime injunction against him.
Elizabeth is a single mom to two daughters who were in
college and a son who was still living at home at the time. Her daughters drove
to Gainesville from Orlando on an almost daily basis to support their mom
through a multitude of court appointments. They saw her through some of her
lowest points, depressed and not wanting to get out of bed.
Through a combination of therapy, exercise, and her solid faith, Elizabeth began “rebuilding” herself. Today, she continues her healing process, which includes sharing her story now – the first time she’s shared it outside of family and close friends. Her daughters joined her for it. “Seeing you bloom and grow and plant beautiful seeds here (at the Coalition) is special. And not just here, everywhere you go. Your character and your light follows you,” Alexandra says.
“I come and visit her at work sometimes and seeing how everyone speaks so highly of our mom and how she does go the extra mile for her clients…it’s amazing,” says Kassandra.
Elizabeth says, “God pulled me here to keep healing. When clients sit down and share what they’re going through, they trust me and that’s part of my healing process. That’s why I’m so passionate about my job. I was in that dark place and I do whatever I can to help others get out of that dark place.”
And to anyone who may be suffering in a violent relationship right now, Elizabeth offers a message of hope, “You deserve better. You have to love yourself first and walk away. With the proper help and right tools, you can do it. You can be happy again, you can find your smile again, and you are worth it.”
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